Sunday 17 December 2023

Embankment station

 


Visitors to London Underground stations hear a friendly warning every time a train arrives; "Mind the gap!" which reminds people to step over the gap between the train and the platform. One morning at Embankment station an elderly woman approached a guard to ask why the voice making the announcement over the loudspeaker had changed. The guard told her that all the announcements across the London Underground had been updated so the old voice had been replaced.

The woman was a GP, Dr Margaret McCollum. She told the guard that the old voice was her husband; an actor called Oswald Lawrence who never became famous but had recorded "Mind the gap!" for all the London underground stations in the 1970s. Oswald died in 2007 and Margaret missed him very much; she felt alone but every day on her way to work at Embankment station she could hear Oswald's voice. Sometimes she would wait on the platform a little longer just to hear his voice every time a train in.

The staff at Embankment station listened to her story and said they would try and find the old recordings, but they knew it would be impossible as the whole system had been erased. Margaret knew that she would not hear Oswald again.

The following year, Margaret was sitting on the station on her way to work when a train arrived and the announcement came over the loudspeaker; "Mind the gap!". Margaret couldn't believe what she heard; it was Oswald speaking!

Many people at Embankment station felt empathy with Margaret; they too had lost loved ones and knew how it felt to feel alone. They wanted to help, so an operation had begun to restore Oswald's announcement. And that is why today if you travel on the underground you will hear a digitalised voice warning you about the gap at every other station, but at Embankment station you will hear only one human voice, a booming male voice saying, "Mind the gap!" and it's Oswald.

What do you see in the picture?
where is it?
What do people hear while standing at the station?

explain the story

- How do you think Margaret felt when she heard Oswald's voice every morning?
- He was only saying three words; she couldn't hold a conversation, so why do you think she would sometimes wait on the station to hear him again and again?
-  How did Margaret feel the first time the announcement was a different voice?
- The guard was probably very busy, why do you think he stopped and listened to her story?
- Oswald's recording had been erased, why do you think staff spent so long trying to restore it? Why didn't they just say, "sorry, it's a different voice now."
- what does empathy mean?
- how do you think Margaret felt when she heard Oswald again?
- this story has gone viral; why do you think that is? What does that show about people around the world today?
- Why is this story about no outsiders? (Margaret felt like an outsider, but the staff worked together to make sure she felt welcome and loved)
- what can we learn from the staff at Embankment station?

There's a short film here telling this story with the real Margaret interviewed https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zSXabUG1yQQ

Merry Christmas everyone!


Saturday 9 December 2023

Benjamin Zephaniah

 

Who is this? What is he doing? What do you think his job is?

This is Benjamin Zephaniah, a British poet who died last week aged 65 and is being remembered as a titan of British literature.

"A titan of British literature" what does that mean? 

What is a poet? How do you become a poet? What sort of education do you think Benjamin had to become a poet, what do you think his childhood was like, how well do you think he did at school?

Benjamin was born and raised in Handsworth, Birmingham. He was dyslexic (what is dyslexia?) and left school at 13 with no qualifications and unable to read or write.

As a child, Benjamin experienced domestic violence and thought it was the norm; he recalled, "I once asked a friend of mine, 'What do you do when your dad beats your mum?' and he went: 'He doesn't'

I said, 'Ah you come from one of those, like, feminist houses. So what do you do when your mum beats your dad?"

Why did Benjamin think parents fighting was the norm? What did he learn that day?

He started to write dub poetry, a Jamaican style of work and when he was 22 he moved to London and published his first poetry book, called, “Pen Rhythm”.

He has spoken out on many issues such as racism and education and become famous for using his voice. In 2008 he was named as one of the top 50 post war British writers.

There are so many poems and performances to explore, I have chosen four because I couldn’t pick just one. The first is called “Who’s who”

I used to think nurses
Were women,
I used to think police
Were men,
I used to think poets
Were boring,
Until I became one of them.

What is Benjamin saying in this poem? Listen to the rhythm in these lines; what do you notice, how does using rhyme affect the poem? 

What do you think makes this a good poem? 

How might this poem be about No Outsiders?

This poem was written as  response to Covid and Black Lives matter in 2021:

Benjamin Zephaniah poem 'people will always be people' (UK/Global) - BBC - 5th June 2020 - YouTube

This poem is called “Talking Turkey’s”

Benjamin Zaphaniah poem from Literacy Evolve for Primary Literacy pupils - YouTube

And finally, possibly the best No Outsiders poem ever written! "The British" 

https://youtu.be/dZ1yYOAwvvo?si=Npwol63Q20bpAwvy

Thank you, Benjamin.


Saturday 2 December 2023

Tree

 


What do you see in the picture? Who are they, where are they? what are they doing, why are they doing it?

The picture shows a Christmas tree in Nordmarka, Norway, being felled ahead of its journey to London to Trafalgar Square.

Why is London having a Christmas tree that was grown in Norway, why don't we use a tree grown in England?

Every year the Norwegian people send a Christmas tree to London. The first was 1947 so how many years has this been happening? (76)

Why do you think Norway send a Christmas tree to England every year?

The tradition was started as a thank you to the UK government who welcomed the Norwegian government and King when Norway was invaded in 1940. 

Who invaded Norway in 1940, what was happening in Europe? Did this make the Norwegian government and the King refugees? Why did the UK government welcome them? Why didn't the government at the time say no?

People in Norway in 1940  felt that London represented the "Spirit of freedom" during the difficult war years. 

What does that mean? How was London different to Norway in 1940?

Who do you think was chosen to fell the tree in Norway? What jobs do you think those two people hold? 

The picture shows the Lord Mayor of Westminster and the Lord Mayor of Oslo felling the tree. 

Why do you think they were chosen to fell the tree? 

Here is a picture of the first Christmas tree from Norway, in 1947.

What does tradition mean, why do traditions carry on?
What does this tradition show about Europe in 1940, in 1947 and today?
What can we learn from the people of Norway?
Why is this about No Outsiders?







Sunday 26 November 2023

Dr Who

 


https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2022/may/24/im-in-awe-trans-actor-yasmin-finney-on-joining-doctor-who

The 60th anniversary of Dr Who was celebrated over the weekend with a new series. Many Dr Who fans praised the LGBTQ+ representation in the programme.

What does LGBTQ+ stand for?
What is representation? 

There were several scenes featuring non-binary characters. In one scene the Dr meets Meep, an extra-terrestrial character, and assumes their pronouns, referring to them as "he". The character corrects the Dr, saying they prefer to use the definite article the Meep.

Later the Dr revealed their own gender identity saying they are "Male and Female. And neither. And more."

In the episode we met Rose Noble, a new character who identifies as non-binary. Rose is played by trans actor Yasmin Finney who announced in July at a trans pride event that her DR Who character was also trans, "I exist, you know I exist. We all exist and we're not going anywhere."


Earlier this year, Yasmin spoke about her previous character Elle in the Netflix series Heartstopper, Elle is a trans character but her trans identity is barely mentioned in the series. Yasmin said this gave her hope for more visibility in the future; "I would think there's hope - a black trans person on the screen. So young, so authentic, and so natural. You do not understand: the amount of time I've spent searching for representation, clawing for it and trying to find someone I could look up to as an idol, somebody that is a reflection of me."

Yasmin hopes in the future she won't be limited to just playing trans characters, "I will play trans roles for the rest of my life if I have to because I think every trans role is valid. But bring on the next role: trans, cis, alien, whatever!"

- what is non-binary?
- if it's the 60th anniversary, what year was Dr Who first aired?
- How was the UK different in 1963?
- Why does the Dr assume Meep's pronoun?
- Do pronouns matter?
- The Dr says they are "Male and Female. And neither. And more." what is your response?
- The Dr is a made up character on TV, so is this relevant to today? It's all just make-believe?
- Why did Yasmin say, "I exist, you know I exist. We all exist and we're not going anywhere." who is she talking about?
- "a black trans person on the screen. So young, so authentic, and so natural. You do not understand: the amount of time I've spent searching for representation, clawing for it and trying to find someone I could look up to as an idol, somebody that is a reflection of me." what does this mean? What is your response to this quote? 
- "But bring on the next role: trans, cis, alien, whatever!" what is Yasmin saying about actors here?
- Does it matter if characters are trans, non-binary, cis? You could argue  it doesn't matter; why do we need to know who a character is... What do you think?
- What can we learn from Yasmin?
- What do we say in our school about being LGBTQ+?
- Why is this about No Outsiders?


Saturday 25 November 2023

Eagle

 


Murphy is a male bald eagle who lives at a bird sanctuary in Missouri, USA. He is 31 years old, which is old for a bald eagle; they usually live for 20-30 years.

Back in March, a keeper noticed Murphy had carefully constructed a nest of leaves around a rock and was protecting it like an egg. He would screech at other birds who came near, and would sit on the rock to keep it warm. Keepers discussed swapping the rock for a real egg but eagle eggs but there were none. Also eagles often do not react kindly to other chicks. Murphy previously lived with two female eagles but none were interested in each other.

Then in late March a next with two eagle chicks was blown down by high winds and they were bought to the sanctuary. One chick did not survive and the other needed a foster parent urgently. Murphy had never raised a chick before. Some keepers were worried this would not work...

Baby chicks cannot be introduced immediately to adult eagles so at first the chick had to be in a protective cage in Murphy's enclosure while the two birds got used to each other. But at some point the cage would have to be removed...

On April 12th the sanctuary released a statement: IT'S HAPPENING!
 
"This morning Murphy got his chance to be a parent as the chick left the nest. Chopped food is being dropped in to the nest but it appears the chick is unable to climb back in to the nest to get to the food. When we checked back we found all the chopped food still in the nest and the chick still out of the nest. However  Murphy's whole fish had been removed from the nest and baby had a full crop. The chick is not yet able to tear food which means MURPHY FED THE BABY!"


- what is a family?
- is this a family? explain your answer.
- Some people might argue Murphy should not have been given a chick; he is old, he is a male eagle, he has never raised a chick before, he might be dangerous... can you see both sides of the argument? How would you respond?
- Why didn't the keepers give the chick to an existing mother?
- Wat are the signs Murphy is going to be a good Dad? 
- What can we learn from Murphy?
- Why is this about No Outsiders?


www.no-outsiders.com
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Sunday 19 November 2023

MP

 


 


What do you see in the picture, is it an old picture or taken recently? How do you know? What do you think this person's job is / was? 

This is Dadabhai Naoroji who was elected as an MP in Finsbury, North London, in 1892. This made him the first Indian MP in Britain. A blue plaque has been erected outside his home in Bromley to mark the 75th anniversary of Indian independence. 



Dadabhai first stood for election in 1886 and was endorsed by Florence Nightingale but was unsuccesful. In 1892 he stood again and faced racist propaganda and discrimination. The prime minister of the time, Lord Salisbury, said the time had not come when a "British constituency would elect a black man". Some people also called him a fire-worshipper. Despite this, Dadabhai was elected. 

When he took his oath in Parliament, Dadabhai did not use a bible, instead he used his Zoroastrian holy book. 

When he was elected, The Guardian newspaper said, "It is an honour to England". During his term as MP, Dadabhai campaigned for Indian independence and also the right of women to sit in Parliament and for Irish home rule. 

The blue plaque is part of English Heritage attempts to celebrate more individuals of ethnic minority backgrounds. An analysis last year found 96% of blue plaques were awarded to white individuals. 

- what is a blue plaque for? Has anyone seen any other blue plaques?  
- why do we remember people that died a long time ago; does it matter?
- What does independence mean? What was Indian independence, why was it important?
- How do you think Dadabhai felt the first time he stood as an MP. How do you think he felt when Florence Nightingale endorsed him? What image do we have of Florence Nightingale and what does this story show us about her? (interested / involved in politics, supported race equality)
- why do you think the prime minister said Dadabhai would never be elected?
- why were some people calling him a fire-worshipper, how would this have made Dadabhai feel, why didn't he give up?
- He was elected anyway; what does this show us about people in Finsbury in 1892?
- "It is an honour to England" - why?
- MPs would usually use a bible to take their oath - what does that mean? Should Dadabhai have used a bible to fit in? Would using a bible have shown respect?
- why do you think 96% of blue plaques are for white people? Does this matter?
- what can we do at our school to make sure we recognise more people of ethnic minority from history?
- why is this about No Outsiders?
- which British value is this about?




Sunday 12 November 2023

Remembrance Sunday

 


People across the UK held a two minute silence this weekend to remember all those who lost their lives in World War One and all wars around the world. World War One lasted from 1914-1918 and ended at 11:00 AM on 11th November 1918. The photo shows Indian troops serving with the British army praying outside a mosque in Surrey during the war.

It is estimated that 1.5 million Indian troops fought with Britain in World War 1, and 400,000 of those were Muslim soldiers. Recent research shows that over 4 million Muslims either fought or served as labourers during the war. But another survey shows only 22% of people in Britain knew that Muslims had fought in the war.

Today many historians are trying to make sure people know about everyone who fought and died in the war. Historian Steve Ballinger says, "Finding out that Muslim soldiers fought and died for Britain to protect us and protect the freedoms we enjoy today, that's an important history for everyone to know."

What do you see in the picture?
where is it ?
do you think it looks like an old picture? how can you tell?
what are they doing, who are they?

explain the picture

- what is Remembrance Sunday?
-why do we have Remembrance Sunday?
- World War One ended over 100 years ago, why do we remember it, why don't we just move on?
- what is the two minute silence for?
- who fought in World War 1?
- In the photo there are lots of people in the background watching the soldiers pray; what do you think they are thinking?
- why do you think some people today forget the soldiers in the war were diverse?
- "It's important history for everyone to know," why?
- what can we learn from the soldiers of World War One?
- why is this story about No Outsiders?

No Outsiders: everyone different, everyone welcome  by Andrew Moffat

www.no-outsiders.com

Saturday 4 November 2023

Football shirt

 

https://www.attitude.co.uk/news/everton-releases-limited-edition-rainbow-shirt-how-to-buy-447827/?fbclid=IwAR2_18FNON3FDizeTCCzqXkaxGO6FHvMRWJS3us_3NYmjDY-0rIP3GmNb2U

Everton have released a new football shirt.

Can you guess what the football shirt is for, what does it represent?

The shirt is to champion equality and to say that everyone is welcome in football. 

Sales from the shirt will support inclusion work carried out by the Everton football club. Projects focus on areas such as disability, youth engagement, social isolation, cultural diversity and LGBT+ inclusion.

CEO Alan Vad Nielsen said, "This jersey is more than just a piece of sportswear, it's a symbol of our enduring commitment to equality and unity."

"In the world of sports, we are all equal regardless of background, gender or beliefs. It's not only acceptable but commendable to embrace our differences and be true to ourselves."

"Through our equality jersey, we aim to unite coaches, players and fans from different clubs, spotlighting this essential value and sparking positive change in our sports community and beyond."

- "Sport is for everyone"- what is meant by this?
- is that statement obvious, do you think it needs to be said?
- How many gay premier league footballers can you name? (Jake Daniels, who plays for Blackpool, is currently the only gay footballer to come out)
- why do you think no premier league footballer has come out? Is that because there are none that are gay? 
- When Jake Daniels came out he said, "For a long time I thought I would have to hide my truth because I wanted to be a professional footballer. I asked myself, should I wait till I retire to come out? No other player here in the professional game is out.... I'm hoping that by coming out I can be a role model to help others come out if they want to.... if, by me coming out, other people look at me and feel maybe they can do it as well, that would be brilliant. If they think, 'This kid is brave enough to do this, I will be able to do it too."
- what is coning out?
- why is Jake saying coming out is a brave thing to do?
- why did Jake think he was going to have to hide his truth and wait till he retired to come out?
- Alan Vad Nielsem says, "It's not only acceptable but commendable to embrace our differences and be true to ourselves." how is this related to Jake's feelings?
- Can a shirt change the world?
-Alan calls for us to embrace our difference, not celebrate; what is the difference? Which word do you prefer? Do we have to celebrate to feel equal?
- what do we say at our school about difference and diversity?
- what can we learn from Everton?
- why is this about No Outsiders?

No Outsiders: Everyone different, everyone welcome by Andrew Moffat

 

Saturday 28 October 2023

Multiculture

 


Oizumi is a town in Japan which has become famous for leading a new initiative in the country to make their society multi-cultural.

What does multi-cultural mean? How do you think the town is trying to welcome people who were born in other countries? What could they do to make sure people feel welcome? Think about any barriers a person might face if they speak a different language, for example.

Signs at the railway station are written in 6 different languages, the council employs teams of interpreters and there is a multicultural centre where people can ask for help about anything from paying bills to health care.

Why does the town do this?

The high street has shops selling food and drink from Brazil, Peru, Colombia, India and Nepal. There are halal butchers and South East Asian karaoke bars.

How do you think such a diverse high street impacts on the town?

42,000 people live in Oizumi and 8,000 are foreign nationals, form 49 different countries. The town proudly promotes itself as "International town" Yumi Kuroki lives in Oizumi and says, "It's a friendly community and I think Japanese people here are used to having foreign neighbours. I used to live in a bigger town and people would ignore me when I greeted them. It's not like that here."

Why choose the name "International Town"?
What is the impact when someone ignores a greeting? How can greeting someone impact on their day?

The Japanese government are encouraging more diversity, recognising that industries such as manufacturing, restaurants, fisheries, construction and agriculture cannot survive without immigration.

What is immigration?
Why do the government say immigration is needed in Japan? 
Why don't they give the jobs to Japanese people instead?

The birth rate is falling in Japan. The population is currently 125 million but in 2065 it is expected to be 88 million. 

What is the answer to that problem? (there is no correct answer, encourage the children to explore different solutions)

When the immigration first started, not everyone was in favour. Some older residents of Oizumi argued there were too many foreigners. 

Why would they say that?
How would you respond?

Masami Fukuda, who works in the town hall, says, "In the past, a lot of people hadn't even met a foreigner, but now their grandchildren go to school with children from all over the world."

How can the grandchildren help to change ideas held by older people?

The photo shows Kumar Yamanda who came to Oizumi from Nepal and now owns a supermarket. Yamanda is fluent in Japanese, Nepali and Hindi. He stands with his employee Talwinder Singh. Kumar says opposite is shop is a Turkish restaurant, a Brazilian beauty salon and a Philippine bar; "It feels like a genuine foreign community."

Fukuda says everyone is welcome in Oizumi; "Our selling point is our diversity."

- "Our selling point is our diversity." what does that mean?
- why are some people worried about immigration?
- how does immigration benefit Oizumi?
- what do we say about diversity and difference at our school? (some schools are more diverse than others, but we can still encourage children to recognise and be proud of our own differences; ask children to think how they are different from the person sitting next to them; are we all exactly the same here?)
- what can we learn from Oizumi?
- why is this about No Outsiders?





Friday 20 October 2023

blindfold

 


What do you see in the picture, what is happening, what is unusual, can you explain the story?

Lucy Edwards got married to her partner over summer this year. During the ceremony as she walked down the aisle, she asked all her guests to put on blindfolds. Can you guess why?

Lucy is blind and she says she wanted her guests to "live a moment in my shoes."

As the guests removed their blindfolds, Lucy's partner, Cave, kept on his, so he could feel the textures in Lucy's dress and understand why she picked that dress. Lucy says, "He was able to feel my wedding dress in exactly the same way that I felt it when I first had it on."

"This was such an important experience for us even though Ollie isn't blind, but we thought it was really important for him and all of my guests to experience what it's like for me in the most important moment of our life so far."

Lucy says when she was planning her wedding, she felt uncomfortable about people lovingly staring at her without being able to look back at them in the way she once wanted to.

"I thought, I know no one does this, but lets blindfold all my guests and we can all  not see each other and we can all live in this beautiful moment together."

Many guests came up to her after the ceremony and said it was their favourite part.

Lucy says, "I wanted to show that you don't need eyesight to have vision. You don't need eyesight to have a lovely time, to experience the milestones in our lives.  

There is a tiktok clip of this moment in the link above.

- why did Lucy want people to wear blindfolds as she walked down the aisle?
- How do you think the guests felt as they were asked to do that?
- why didn't anyone refuse? 
- "live a moment in my shoes." what does that mean?
- "This was such an important experience for us" why was it?
- why do you think Lucy asked Cave to keep his blindfold on to feel the textures of her dress?
- why do you think guests told Lucy the blindfold bit was their favourite part of the wedding?
-  "you don't need eyesight to have vision" is that true? What does Lucy mean? Do you agree?
- Does Lucy want people to feel sorry for her? Explain your answer.
- How is Lucy protected by British Law? (Equality Act)
- Which British value is this story about?
- what can we learn from Lucy?
- why is this about no outsiders?








Sunday 15 October 2023

Finding ways to talk about war with children.

 


Lots of children in my school are talking about what is happening in Israel this week and many are worried about it. Some children are scared about war happening here. I have tried to create an assembly to help children make sense of the world and conflict.


What does the map show? What countries do you recognise?
What do you know about the history of Europe? Have countries in Europe always co-existed peacefully?
How many battles ands wars do you think there have been in Europe in the last 1000 years?


This wikipedia page lists over 800 battles and wars that took place in Europe in the last 1000 years. 

What does that figure show about people throughout history?

Have battles and wars been fought here in England? Who was England fighting against for most of the Middle Ages in to the 1700s? 

England and Scotland had many battles throughout history with many lives lost. The biggest battle is thought to be the Battle of Flodden in 1513 in Northumberland. Thousands of soldiers (who were ordinary people) were killed including the Scottish King James IV. 

Is England at war with Scotland today? What does this show about wars?

The largest battle on English soil was the battle of Towton in North Yorkshire, in 1461 during the Wars of the Roses. This battle was to change the King of England; Edward IV deposed the current King Henry VI to become King. An estimated 12,000 people died in the battle.

What can we learn from history? Why are all those battles not still going on today in Scotland and in Yorkshire? 

Does hope exist? How can peace be achieved?


Oliver Jeffers has written this short story about battles and borders. In the story, Oliver writes about our big earth being divided into smaller bits: "It seems we humans have always fought each other over space." In the story, Oliver takes his two young children on a trip through space in his car and as they look in to the rear view mirror, they see earth going back in time and people fighting over land throughout history. 

What do you think this story is about, why did Oliver write it, what can we learn from this story?

What is happening today in the news today? How does war affect people? 

It's ok to feel anxious or worried about things happening in other parts of the world. You are not the only person to feel this way and adults also feel worried or upset sometimes. 

Is there an easy answer to war? If there was, would there still be wars today? 

What can we do when we hear about wars in other places? 

We can listen to different opinions and share our feelings. We can listen to and help people around us who are affected. We can make sure everyone knows they are welcome here and everyone is safe, whatever they believe and whoever they are. In our school, we welcome different ideas and opinions; sometimes we can change our mind and sometimes we don't, but we can still listen and consider the views of others. In our school we can disagree and still get along. We can co-exist and respect each other even if we disagree.

What does co-exist mean?

Why is this about No Outsiders? 

Have a moment of reflection to think about all those affected by the situation today.







Thursday 5 October 2023

Bathroom

 

https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/someone-asked-if-my-8-year-old-was-using-the-wrong-bathroom-heres-how-i-responded_uk_6501caede4b04bad69ec258d?fbclid=IwAR2wkMzpttLTn5tz61rugsexqxMCapmbxmUgNDwF7gR0pkpuVEv5cj7Sjeo

A Mum who lives in America has written a letter to a newspaper to express her anger about someone asking her eight year old son if he was in the right public bathroom. In America, people call toilets 'bathrooms' and like in the UK, often toilets are labelled male and female.

The mum doesn't want her son to be named in the letter so calls him Z.

Mum says, "One of the most remarkable things about Z is that he throws tired gender norms out of the door. He has beautiful long hair, his favourite outfit is rainbow leggings paired with a pink bomber jacket. He openly cries, plays the flute, articulates his feelings and rocks out to Dolly Parton. He also loved football, lego, vintage cars and biking."

Mum asks, "Do any of these things define his gender? Of course not!"

The incident happened when Z was leaving the boys bathroom and someone asked him if he used the wrong bathroom. Z replied, "No, I'm a boy!"

Mum says she and her family are really careful about their use of pronouns and if they see someone walking down the street that they don't know, they will not assume and use the pronouns he or she. They will use 'they' until they they know differently. 

Z said he was offended that someone questioned his bathroom use; "Why do they care? It's ok that I have long hair and I am a boy."

Z felt embarrassed to go back to the person, but Mum went and spoke to them for him. Mum says she went and spoke to the person because, "I truly believe that if approached correctly, conversations such as these can lead to positive change."

- what is gender?
- Ze "throws tired gender norms out of the door." what does that mean?
- why do you think someone questioned Z as he left the male bathroom?
- is it ok to do that? You could argue they were trying to help. Z could have made a mistake... what do you think?
- why was Z offended?
- why do Z's family take care about the pronouns they use when they meet someone new?
- do pronouns matter? Why? (or why not?)
- "Why do they care?" why might the person have cared? Does it matter which bathroom people use? explain your answer.
- why was Z embarrassed to go and talk to the person with mum?
- "I truly believe that if approached correctly, conversations such as these can lead to positive change." what does mum mean by this?
- How do you think Mum talked to the person? Did she shout? 
- if we have bathrooms that are labelled male and female, is there a challenge here? What if people do not look like traditional males or traditional females? Where do they go? Who decides? How do you think Z might feel next time he visits a public bathroom? 
-what is the answer? (there is no 'correct' answer, but this could be a great discussion where children listen and consider and give their points of view. Children might suggest we have gender-neutral bathrooms; children might suggest we work to change attitudes about what a boy looks like and what a girl looks like...perhaps Z should cut his hair to look like a traditional boy... )
- how would Z be treated if he was in our school?
- what can we learn from Z?
- Why is this about No Outsiders?


Sunday 1 October 2023

Mothers day

 


What do you see in the picture, what is happening, where are they, how do you think these two people know each other and can you think of an explanation for the story?

In Thailand, Mothers day is celebrated a bit differently to the UK. On August 12th each year, people usually have the day off and schools will hold special Mothers day ceremonies. At the ceremony, children kneel in front of their mother and present them with Jasmine flowers to show their love, respect and appreciation. 

That is a lovely celebration to have, but what is the problem with it, who does it exclude, what do the organisers assume about all families if they hold such a ceremony? Do all families have a mum? How would a child feel at the celebration if their family did not have a mum?

Nong Cream is a 11 year old girl who was adopted by single dad. How do you think she felt as the ceremony got closer and closer and she saw all her friends preparing?

What did her dad do on the day?

Dad came dressed up as a mum on the day. As soon as she saw him, Nong Cream leapt in to his arms. You can see a heart-warming short tick tock video in the link above.

Dad said he had no regrets doing this because he knew the most important thing was that his daughter was not left out. He said, "Personally, I'm not ashamed because I love my child."

 Nong Cream said, "This year's mother's day I want to say I love my father. Thank you father for raising me and making me happy. This life doesn't feel like a lack of anything."

- How do you think dad felt as he walked in to the school wearing a dress?
- look at the faces of the people around him, are they accepting of his decision?
- why didn't dad just show up as himself, why did he choose to wear a dress?
- is that because all mums wear a dress? 
- Can dads wear dresses if they want? Are clothes gender-specific?
- so, did he have to wear a dress to support his daughter?
- Do you think the dress was a symbol, was it important, would the gesture have had the same impact if dad had worn a suit?
- the school could have said he was being disrespectful to mums and refused to let him in; do you think there was a conversation at the door when he turned up?
-"Personally, I'm not ashamed because I love my child." suggests there might be some shame. Where might that shame come from?
- "This year's mother's day I want to say I love my father." can you celebrate a father on mother's day? What can we learn from Nong Cream from this statement? 
- "This life doesn't feel like a lack of anything." what does she mean?
- In 2023 should we be having separate celebrations for mothers day and fathers days? Are families the same today as they were 100 years ago? What is the problem with these celebrations? (perhaps you think there is not a problem at all - discuss)
- What can we learn from dad in this story?
- what can we learn from Nong Cream?
- why is this about No Outsiders?



Sunday 24 September 2023

new school

 




Ashton is a pupil starting middle school this year. This is a photo of him walking in to school. What do you notice about Ashton, what is he holding as he walks in to school?

Ashton is visually impaired and his mum wanted other students to be aware of Ashton's needs as he started his new school so she posted a video of him navigating through the school corridors with his back pack and white cane. She wrote:

"A letter to parents before my son, who is blind, starts middle school. Talk to your kids about students who may look or act different from the rest. Teach them to include the kids who may be sitting alone in the lunch room or not able to find class on the first day."

 Mum continued, "I think I am more nervous than he is. All I ever want is for him to feel included and to now he belongs with the rest of the students in school. Please talk to your kids and tell them about kids with disabilities. Tell them about my son who practised walking round the school all summer just to prepare for his first day."

You can see a video of Ashton walking round the school in the link above.

Film star Hugh Jackman posted the video on social and sent a message to Ashton; "No one ever made a difference by being like everyone else. You be yourself, You're amazing."

- Every new student faces challenges starting a new school, but what additional challenges do you think Ashton might face as he stares his new school. 
- Ashton's mum says she is more nervous than he is, why?
- "Talk to your kids about students who may look or act different from the rest." why does Mum ask this?
- why did Ashton spend his summer walking around the school? Why don't visually able children do that?
- How do you think Ashton feels over summer?
- "No one ever made a difference by being like everyone else" what does this mean?
- How do you think Ashton feels about his mum's post? Do you think he wants his mum to announce his arrival in this way?
- If Ashton was starting at our school, would mum need to write this?
- How do we make sure at our school everyone feels welcome?
- Why is this about No Outsiders? 



Sunday 17 September 2023

Roll around the world

 


When Corey Lee went to his first job interview after college, the manager immediately said he wouldn't be able to do the job because it involved a lot of travel. He thought Corey would not be able to travel because he was a wheelchair user. 

Corey decided to launch his own website about accessible travel to show wheelchair users how to travel easier. Today Corey works as a travel writer and has travelled 41 countries. He travels for 6 months every year and writes and plans his next trio for the next 6 months. He is hoping to inspire others like him to "Roll around the world."

Corey has spinal muscular atrophy and started using a wheelchair when he was 4 years old. He says at school the other kids were confused and asked him lots of questions about his chair.

Corey says he liked travelling to Barcelona best because all the public transport is accessible and there are accessible beaches.

Travelling with  a wheelchair does come with challenges, Corey's advice is:
"Start small and local. Do research ahead of time about accessible bathrooms, taxis, restaurants and hotels. Once you've built up your confidence, take a short flight. And always expect some sort of trouble. Stay positive and you'll have a memorable experience."

He says, "Life has a funny way of working out!"

- why do you think the manager at Corey's job interview said he wouldn't be able to do the job?
- Was he right?
- what law in the UK today means this should not happen in the UK today? (Equality Act 2010 - who else is protected under the Equality Act?)
- Why do some people think a wheelchair user is unable to travel? How would you respond to that assumption?
- Corey could have applied for another job, but instead he started to be a travel writer. Why do you think he did this?
- why does he use the words, "Roll around the world"?
- why did children at school ask Corey about his wheelchair? Is it ok to ask questions?
- what does accessible transport mean? Is public transport accessible where we live? 
- In his advice to other wheelchair users, Corey suggests starting small; what does that mean and why is it good advice?
- Corey says travelling with a wheelchair does come with challenges- what challenges might Corey face and how do you think he overcomes those challenges?
- "Stay positive and you'll have a memorable experience"- explain this
- "Life has a funny way of working out!" what does Corey mean by this?
- what do we say about disability at our school?
- what can we learn from Corey?
- Why is this about No Outsiders?


Friday 15 September 2023

school uniform

 




Do you remember what the weather was like last week? It was very hot! 

Joe Stratton goes to school in Surrey and is in Year 11. He asked to wear shorts at school because he was very uncomfortable in long trousers during the hot weather. The school uniform policy was clear that shorts could be worn in the summer term but in September long trousers or skirts had to be worn.

Joe decided he would wear a skirt to school and did for two days, saying he would do the same every time he felt too hot for trousers.

Joe's dad called his son a legend and said, "At first he thought he would be ridiculed. But I told him at the end of the day, you stand up for what you believe in."

Dad said, "Most of the teachers were proud if him for finding a peaceful way to prove his point that didn't hurt anyone."

Joe's school uniform policy gives two options for students in year 7 to year 10: Uniform A (trousers) or Uniform B (skirt).

- why do schools have a uniform?
- are school uniforms a good thing? What are the arguments for and against?
- Do you think Joe had any worries about wearing a skirt to school? Why?
- What is a gender stereotype? Is this story about gender stereotypes?
- why do you think a skirt might be more comfortable to wear in summer than long trousers?
- That's an interesting pose in the photo for Joe to make, why is he standing like that?
- The school uniform policy doesn't actually mention gender, it just says "Uniform A and Uniform B" - why do you think that is?
- what is a gender-neutral uniform policy? 
(You could link to this story about Virgin Airlines who made their uniform gender neutral last year https://no-outsiders-assembly.blogspot.com/2022/11/gendered-uniform.html)
- Is our school uniform gender- neutral? Could it be? What do we say about gender stereotypes here?
- why is this story about No Outsiders?


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Sunday 10 September 2023

Being a dad

     

https://www.upworthy.com/this-daddy-daughter-hair-braiding-class-is-heart-explodingly-adorable-hw

Phillipe is a single dad with a daughter named Emma. Emma has long hair and wants to wear her hair in braids but Dad has never done this to his own hair and no-one ever showed him how to do it, so what do you think he did?

Dad taught himself how to braid hair for his daughter. He got so good at it that he started running classes for other dads who didn't know how to braid hair. He then started a facebook group called Daddy Daughter Hair Factory and built a website where people can learn how to braid properly. 

You can watch Dad and Emma in the short film in the link above. 

Dad says doing his daughters hair is a very small percentage of raising a daughter, less than 1%. He says the real reason he is doing it is to teach her how a man should be in her life. 

"A dad playing tea party, or a dad playing dress up, it's uncommon. But it shouldn't be. We need to have fun and be creative and not worry about what the world thinks about."

Emma says the groups are "pretty cool".

-Who does the hair in your house? 
- why do you think this story made the news?
- Phillipe teaches people to do the three strand braid and the braided elastic cover-up. Do you know what these are? Does anyone know how to do them? (if so, who taught you?)
- The film shows Daddy-daughter classes in states all over the US. What does this show about dads all over the world?
- should mums be allowed in these classes? How would that change the group? Would it be a good thing?
- Let's think about the name Daddy-Daughter. What do you think about this group; is it inclusive? Who is being left out?
- Can sons have long hair and braids too?
- do all mums know how to do braids?
- Why do you think the classes are specifically aimed at dads and daughters? What do you think about that?
- If this was a general braids class for any kids, who do you think would show up? Would dads go? Why not? 
- so is it the right thig to call it dads and daughters, even though you are excluding sons, and also excluding mums who might not know how to braid? (might mums ger support elsewhere? is it easier for a mum to ask for help to braid than a dad?)
- Phillipe wants to teach Emma "how a man should be in her life" what does he mean by this? How should a man be?
- "A dad playing tea party, or a dad playing dress up, it's uncommon. But it shouldn't be. We need to have fun and be creative and not worry about what the world thinks about." what does this mean? Why is it uncommon? Do you agree? s it uncommon?
- What are gender stereotypes?
- what can we learn from Phillipe and from these dads?
- what message would you give to them about boys and being a bit more inclusive?
- why is this about No Outsiders?